Do you have a "gut feeling" that something fishy is going on?  Most women victims of infidelity will admit that something felt wrong  while everything appear to be normal.  "Myra a young woman says I am glad I followed my instincts,  If I had ignored then I'm afraid I still be living a lie".  If your spouse is cheating, you might be able to tell by looking at sudden changes on his routine, lack of interest in you, etc. 

If you find that more than one sign applies to your situation then it might be a red flag.  Please use common sense before assuming your spouse is cheating.  Make sure your partner is not simply going trough a phase or making some changes in his life,  before confronting him or playing detective.

• Does he suddenly work late all the time or has all this new  engagements away from home.
• When his overall appearance changes grooming habits, clothing, hair, fitness etc. 
• Treats you abusively.
• Is too nice all of the sudden.
• Is he spending more money?  Keep an eye on bank accounts, credit card bills etc.
• find faults in everything you do trying to justify   the cheating
• Cheater might increase or decrease sex activity with you,  might also want to try different sex acts.
• Does he seems to pick fights with you to later storm out the house.
• Your spouse doesn't want to go out with you or kids anymore.
• Signs another woman is close to him, lipstick on his collar?  unusual fragrance? strand of hair on car clothes etc.
• Extremely defensive,  when questioned.

If after reading this tips you are more convince that he is cheating and feel driven to "play detective" our guide to Expose A Cheater!