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When Friends and Family
Say: You Can’t Do That!
by Kenia Morales You can’t
do that, does this phrase sound familiar? I am pretty sure you heard it
before. Family and friends
will tell you that when you communicate one of your life’s desires or
dreams. You probably shared the information expecting them to be happy
about your new venture. But, guess what? The response you get is: You
can’t do that, you are crazy, why don’t you do this instead etc.
Phrases like those can be fatal for the dreamer. Especially if the
dreamer admires the person responding negatively; an individual can
believe the statement, get paralyze and will never even dare to go an
extra mile.
If you are thinking I am wrong and that family and friends are always
supportive. Then go ahead, I encourage you to share one of your
innermost desires. Some that you may have dug so deep because you think
it is almost impossible. Therefore, you restrain from sharing it because
you are afraid others will think you are crazy.
See how some of them that truly believe in you might support you, others
will tell you flat out: Do not waste your time dreaming, while others
will be more subtle and say nothing but, you can still feel their
negative energy.
The reasons for their reactions may vary. Some of them maybe trying to
protect you from failure, others may feel a little jealous; while others
simply have a negative outlook on life. However, whether their reactions
are positive or negative it truly has nothing to do with you. It is more
about their own personalities and outlook in life.
Only you have the capability to expand your horizon. So, what ever
others say or think about you does not really matter. Imagine Thomas
Edison would have believed the teacher that released him from class
because he thought the boy was of inferior intelligence. Now, Edison is
remembered as one of the greatest contributors of our society.
So when it comes to your aspirations you can still share them with your
friends and family. After all we are social beings and it makes us feel
alive when we share part of us with our loved ones. Just remember do not
rely too much on others opinions.
Listen to your heart,
Kenia Morales
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